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How does one succeed in life?

12.06.2025 03:54

How does one succeed in life?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

What I need from you?

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Has a psychic ever made a crazy prediction that turned out to be true?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Does not procrastinate.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Hangs out with loser friends.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Do not set goals—set systems.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Ask yourself:

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What are some funny stories of people calling 911 for non-emergencies?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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That's it for today.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.